The greatest damage you can bring to yourself is by
breaking the trust of others in you.
If you are trusted, you are the most successful
person on earth. Be trust-worthy and value your words. You cannot be
trust-worthy if you are gripped by selfishness. People unknowingly respect the
person who is selfless and thinks impartially. Selflessness builds a great amount
of trust. Be ready to sacrifice the little things in life for the greatest
virtue of trust and self-worth.
Never divulge the secret of someone if that is
harmful to him/her. And never use the secrets of someone as a weapon to harm or
bend him/her. A one-time win will rob you of a life-long win. Do not go for
short term benefits.
It is essential in life to make
People believe that you are impartial, sincere, truthful, honest and a man of
words. It needs a little more sacrifice and a little more kindness of heart. Go
for it.
Do not simply use words to
construct your Self-image. You may fall in the ill-habit of Self-praise. Do not
speak in words, speak in your actions. Words work on the surface but actions
sow seeds in the soul. Work hard on what you want to be.
Often we speak high of ourselves
and expect others to believe so. But people do not go with words. People unconsciously evaluate your actions
and draw their opinions of you. So speak through your acts and deeds. Think and do what you want to be. And build a
concrete self image by your actions.
Many times you may not get the
expected results instantly but constantly sending out the message of your true
self-worth by your actions in the desired direction will one day land you on
success. Have patience and stride on.
